Raymond Martin Dydell

Raymond Martin Dydell



Raymond Martin Dydell, 57, St. Joseph, Missouri died Friday, March 2, 2013 at Heartland Regional Medical Center.

He was born July 9, 1955 to Raymond M. and Betty C. (Wilson) Sanders

Raymond married Sabrina West on November 3, 2000.

He had a high school diploma, attended Missouri Western State University and later graduated from Northland Career Center in Platte City, Missouri as a Licensed Practical Nurse.  He worked for many years at Carriage Square.  He enjoyed playing Triple A baseball throughout his life.

He was preceded in death by his parents; brother, Bolton Dydell; and grandmother, Alberta Wilson.

Survivors: wife, Sabrina Dydell; sons, Chris Dydell(Jackie), Iowa, Raymond Dydell (Angie), Iowa; daughter, Patricia Kellogg-Dydell, St Joseph, Missouri; son, Christopher Chipps, St. Joseph, Missouri; daughters, Stevi Dydell, St. Joseph, Missouri, McKenna Dydell, Wentzville, Missouri, Peyton Dydell, Wentzville, Missouri; six grandchildren; aunt, Ruth Marie Mozee, St. Joseph, Missouri; brothers, Kenneth Dydell (Bertha), William Dydell (Irene), Michael Dydell (Linda); sister, Vontella Dydell; brothers, Gary Dydell (Karen) and Mark Dydell; sisters, Sharon Weston (Grey) and Janice Lee; brother, Roger Dydell; sister, Kellie Tope (Terri); and many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Memorial Service:  1:00 P.M. Thursday, Meierhoffer Funeral Home & Crematory. Flowers are appreciated and for those wishing to make a contribution, the family requests they be made to the Dydell Family.


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Messages of Condolence

  1. Amanda says:

    Such a great person and dedicated nurse. He will be deeply missed. Condolences to the family.

  2. Vicky Beaver says:

    Words can not express to you how sorry I am for your loss. I would like to instead express to you how much Raymond touched my life and the life of everyone at Carriage Square and I’m sure everyone who had the privilage of knowing him. I will miss him terribly.

  3. Judy Eddy says:

    Raymond you and your kindness to others will be greatly missed! RIP. My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends!

  4. Arlene Sollars says:

    Prayers for family and the residents whose lives he touched. I have great grade school (Humboldt) and high school (Lafayette) memories of Raymond and his wonderful smile! He will be missed.

  5. Jennifer Murphy says:

    This is such a sad loss… Raymond will be deeply miss and this is a sad thing for the nursing field.. because he was such a caring and loving indiviual… Condolences to the family!! RIP Raymond this is a sad day for me!!

  6. Scott Summerford says:

    My friend, you will be missed and always fondly thought of. Thanks for telling me about Northland Career Center where we both got our LPN. I have been proud to call you friend for over 44 years. The best thing you ever said to me was in regards to me joining the band back in hs days “you were the only white boy we knew, that had any soul.” Thanks to my brother from another mother. Prayers for love, peace and comfort for the family.

  7. Peyton Dydell says:

    I love you Daddy.

  8. Colleen Beatty says:

    Gods kingdom gained an amazing angel and we here left behind will forever miss him. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family may god be with you through this trying time.

  9. Chris Brennan Van Hoozer says:

    My prayers and thoughts go to Raymond’s family. He was such a caring individual, loved what he did at Carriage Square. He was a godsend to my mother while she was there. We go back to the “old neighborhood” in northend—-Mom was a second mother to him as he always told her. You will be greatly missed, but the angels and saints in heaven will love you!!

  10. Eddie Williams says:

    Raymond was A fine and gental Man. His smile and friendly personality was loved by all who had pleasure to know him.He will be missed by the Christmas family.

  11. cassie griffin says:

    Raymond will be missed he was a Beautiful Soul and a Angel GOD sent to us. Him and my MoM ( Theresa Noland ) R.I.P and my sister Toni Schooler use to sit in her kitchen and talk for hours we ALL Loved him so much my thoughts and prayers go out to his Family and Many friends he had in life. He will be greatly missed by the Nolands.

  12. Burt & Wilma Sollars says:

    Gary, and Family
    On the loss of your brother,Raymond
    May the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your pain
    at this time.
    Burt Sollars & his mother Wilma

  13. Rev. Dennis R. & Sheryl Sue says:

    Raymond was a great friend for over 35 years we shared a lot of fun times way back in the day and could always count on u to have my back words cannot express how much you are missed R.I.P. Old Friend.

  14. Ida Pummell says:

    Raymond was a wonderful and caring guy. He always knew how to make my mom(R.I.P.) smile at Carriage Square. Your family are in my prayers.

  15. Jessica Evans says:

    Raymond will be missed. He has always shown utmost respect for the people he took care of and has always found a way to connect with others. He is admired by many residents, staff and families of Carriage Square!

  16. Greg Polsky says:

    Raymond was one of my favorite people. He could always say something that would make me laugh. My heart hurts right now. R.I.P. You will be greatly missed.

  17. Dennis and Janet Gray says:

    Raymond was a brother, a friend, a great father and someone you could always count on. Dennis always looked up to him as a goto person. Memories of him, of laughter and happy times will always be with us forever. Losing you has hit our hearts hard. You will never be fogotten and you will be totally missed by all of your family and friends, especially by Dennis and myself. Rest in peace my friend and we will see you on the other side. Love to you always and love to your family.

  18. Sue Ann Page says:

    I never had the privilege of working with Raymond, however I was honored to consider him a dear friend. I am am heartsick at our loss. It makes me happy though to think of his smile, lighting up heaven !

  19. Kim Duke says:

    Raymond was a joy to be around. He always seemed to make the best of everything. I will miss him. May God be with you all in your time of need. Raymond was always ready to give you a smile and a warm hello, even when he was not on his best day. I find it hard to imagine not seeing him. For the lord is with you Raymond. Your a bright shining angel.

  20. Karen Quigley says:

    Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Raymond took care of my mom for the last 16 months at Carriage Square. He had such a huge heart for his residents, and I always felt Mom was well cared for when Raymond was there. God Bless, you, Raymond.

  21. Amy Vohl says:

    I am so saddened by the loss of Raymond. My heart breaks for his family and anyone that knew him. He was one of the kindest and most caring individuals, I have every met. He and Sabrina were the greatest neighbors and I have missed them and their family tremendously. He loved my cooking and ask how I learned to cook soul food. I also remember him and Mark taking bets on how long it would take me to get that huge pile of dirt moved. Raymond placed his bet on me. He will truly bless the heavens! We loved you deeply and may your memories live long in everyone’s heart! Rest in peace brother Raymond. Rest in peace…

  22. Dianna Haynes says:

    My heart is so saddened of the loss of my friend and co~worker when i worked with him at Carriage Square !! He was an absolute joy to be around and one of the best nurses around !!!! Miss you so much buddy !!!! May his family know our prayers & thoughts are with you all !!! R.I.P. Raymond !!! We love ya buddy !!!

  23. Leo & Michelle Washington says:

    We were very saddened to hear of the loss of Raymond. He always had a smile on his face to greet us and words to make us laugh. May God continue to bless your family. We extend our Deepest Sympathy…

  24. Rebecca Urban says:

    Raymond was such a joy to work with at Carriage Square, we will miss your smile and hard work that you gave to each of your co-workers and amazing care to your residents. I will miss sharing notes with you on these teenage girls today and our chats about life in general. I know you must have a special seat in heaven and will look over all those for whom you love.

  25. gary garver says:

    how i will miss you greatly at work !!!! i have known raymond since grade school and high school at lafayette and we went to humblodt grade school—he was 2 years behind me—he brought joy to everyone he met and you just couldnt not love the big guy !!!! he loved life and people and his great concern about everyone who was under his care at carriage square and friends as well—-so proud of his family and what he had accomplished in life—–he was loved by all at carriage square !!!!!!we will miss you raymond and we love you just as much—until we meet again be with those that has passed away from carriage square that was under your care and love!!!!!! until we see you again love to you brother—–gary garver

  26. Robert & Alison Diaz-Burford says:

    Its still hard to believe the news that you are gone.Noth Bob and I had the privelege of working witj Raymond. Raymond was so full of compassion for the people he cared about. He was a kind, and caring nurse. I will never forget the fun and laughs we had while working the evening shift together. What great memories I have of Raymond. Sending thoughts and prayers to his wonderful family. RIP Raymond. With sympathy, Robert & Alison Buford and family.

  27. Kelly Tope (Dydell) says:

    Looking at Raymond’s picture touches my heart deeply. He was my brother and a life line during my teen age years. I remember waiting eagerly for him to pick me up so I could go to his softball games. I accompanied him so often that many thought I was his wife.(Lol) I soo enjoyed watching him pitch that fast pitch. In his words he would “rock and fire” He was the best!!!

  28. linda holguin says:

    I met Raymond at Carriage Squre. When our loved one passed he was there and so full of spirit. Just watching him you knew he had a direct connection to our higher power! It was amazing,beautiful and so very meaningful. There is not a doubt in my mind he will carry on with his spirit gifts.

  29. Debbie Shalz Lawrence says:

    Janice and the whole Dydell family I am sorry to hear about the loss of your brother Raymond my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  30. Wanda Shuman says:

    Raymond will be missed by all. he was a caring, giving person and ready to help nyone. he always talked about his children and grand-children with pride. he always had a smile on his face. my thoughts and prayers are with his children and grand-children in this time of sorrow.

  31. Carol Burrell says:

    Raymond was a very wonderful person . He had such a caring heart and enjoyed his job to the fullest. I will never forget him stopping by my office everyday to say hi. He was always in a great mood and loved his job and his coworkers. I cant imagine this palce we work without him. It was truly a deep loss. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. we considered him our family. may god bless and keep you all and help you to get through this .

  32. Frank Lewis says:

    I was saddened to read about the loss of Raymond, but at the same time happy to see that he had become an LPN. I played softball with Raymond on the old St. Joe Woods team and his true calling was smiling and making others laugh and feel good. I can only imagine how many people he made laugh while caring for them. Rest in peace Raymond.

  33. gene dunn says:

    Gray Iam sorry for the loss,my heart is out to you and his kids..

  34. Aalix Dydell says:

    I love you Uncle Raymond and will surely miss not being able to see you again everytime im back in St. Joe. I cant express how much pain I feel that your gone. We had such a great relationship and you will always be on my mind. Rest In Peace.

  35. Paul and Carol McGaughy says:

    We would like to send our sympathy and warmest thoughts to all of Raymonds brothers, sisters, wife, children and relatives. Rest in Pease Raymond.

  36. David Rosebaum says:

    I was heartbroken to read about the loss of Raymond.

  37. Thomas A. Hill and Family says:

    Ray was a great friend that I will miss. I’m still stunned. My prayers go out to the entire Dydell Family.

  38. Patti Anderson says:

    Mr. Raymond Dydell will be greeted in heaven by angels he took care of on earth. Raymond was truly a gentle giant! His level of kindness, respect and love was above and beyond what most people know how to show. God bless your family for there will be a void in all our lives. My prayers go out to his loved ones. God bless Raymond forever.

  39. Kerri Williams says:

    Raymond was a good brother-in-law and a kind and caring man who will be missed dearly. I am so sorry for your loss.

  40. Larry and Sharon Allen says:

    Sorry to hear of Ray’s passing, our thoughts are with your family.

  41. CINDY RUSSELL says:

    Raymond you were such a joy to be around, always had a smile and could always make you smile, no matter how bad things were, my prayers go out to the Dydell family for their loss of a great man.

  42. Marsha Palmer-Thelwell & Dwight Thelwell says:

    We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family!

  43. Michelle Marshall says:

    I’m sorry for your loss. He always took excellent care of my parents. Everyone at Carriage Square will miss him. Praying for your family and everyone at Carriage Square.

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